For adults who have been affected by ADHD, a relationship can be filled with bliss, joy, excitement and passion. It can also be filled with frustration, misunderstandings and shame. There’s no getting away from the fact that many of the key characteristics of ADHD – inconsistency, impulsivity, disorganization and forgetfulness – can directly clash at times with how many people feel a strong and conventional marriage or cohabiting relationship should be. We tend to value consistency, … [Read more...]
An Open Letter To My Wife, From My ADHD
*This post is a response to An Open Letter to My Husband's ADHD To My Wife, While it's hard to put into words; I do realize how difficult I am. It is not my intention to be this way - and especially not to hurt you. I really am trying, whether or not you're able to believe that. I think you know that, but at times it's hard to remember. You are the most gentle, loyal, and caring person I've ever met. It's what makes you an incredible therapist and an incredible friend, but also … [Read more...]
